5 things to consider before the first date
So, finally you are going for your first date, and of course, you must be going through all the possibilities in your mind for the bad and the worst. Dreaming the horrific possibility of being rejected upon his or her first glance of you, or thinking of the best scenario of ‘love in the air’ are the commonest things to create waves in mind.
Nervousness is the first sign of first date, and I think it is normal and obvious. But, take a deep breath and remind yourself of some important things and calm your anxious nerves:
Everything is not under your control
Show up with your game face and play your part, rest has to be done by your date. Of course, things will not be completely under your control but partially. At least, you do your best and leave the rest on the universe… blame your stars…
Like you, your date is also nervous
Of course, you two are dating for the first time, and your date will also be going through the same feeling and thoughts. You are not alone battling with your anxious nerves. The millions pictures running through your mind and heart will also be experienced by your date, and it absolutely human nature to evaluate each other and have anxious nerves. So keep calm and flow with the wind.
You are going to create memories
Every good or bad thing in your life will turn into a memory or lesson to improve value of your life. The part of fun is the sharing experience with your loved ones later. Every funny mishap, awkward moments, offensive things as well as funny jokes – all these things will create stories to tell your partners later.
Your date can read your enthusiasm
People often say that they could not be so energetic or real them when met for the first date so everything was super calm. Oh rubbish! Don’t be in confusion, doesn’t matter how nervous or anxious you are, your activities or boring habits too may leave impression on your date about your enthusiasm or energy.
Notably, you are important for someone
Obviously yes, that’s why someone wants to spend time with you. Even if the failure occurs, there is something that is bringing you two closer and it decides the worth of you.