Cant orgasm? Here’s help for women
The versatility of the subject of sex is truly amusing in its own ways. A healthy attitude towards sex helps to understand some of its most important features. The pleasures that are achieved in the sexual indulgence vary from male to female. All that happens in the body and mind while reaching the climax of a sexual act, is a subject of great interest.
Orgasm marks the climax of any sexual act. And the fact that accompanies is that females are likely to achieve an orgasm almost four times longer lasting than their male counterparts. In women it can last for as long as twenty seconds which has been scientifically proven. Various factors play a pivotal role during sex or masturbation for a female to achieve that bed clanking orgasm. The following techniques are ideal and can be inculcated to achieve that long lasting orgasm in her:
- Sweet nothings: Instead of right away hoping on the performance couch, a couple can indulge in some sweet and sensuous conversation accompanied by the male stroking the female. This enhances the sexual desire in female’s mind.
- Masturbation: In the act of self-stimulation, a female can stroke the sexually sensitive areas of her body before heading for the genital stimulation.
- Amazing sex positions: Apart from the most common missionary position, various other positions are worth exploring for attaining that ultimate climax. These include the coital-alignment-technique (CAT) which is ideal to bring her to the brink and heighten the sexual sensitivity; the coitus more ferrarum (doggy style) position serves to increase the friction and thereby a strong G spot stimulation; the side canoodling is another position that promises a longer sexual pleasure owing to its less aerobic nature.
Like everything else, the orgasm in a physical act, comes with a second facet, represented through females faking orgasm. According to scientific surveys, two third of the women have at some point faked orgasm. This is commonly attributed to her wish to please her male counterpart. But, there are factors which are not usually taken into account, but hamper a woman’s capability to achieve orgasm. And not many of them would have thought of it to be genetic factor. Yes, the fact that the ability of a female to attain orgasm depends in some cases in her genetic component, has now been proven by genetic epidemiologists.
The second important factor attributes to the medical issues, more precisely termed as orgasmic dysfunction. Primary reasons for this are a possible sexual abuse in the past, hypertension, emotional sterility or dissatisfaction, or spinal injury to name some. Such few issues are probable reasons for a female faking orgasm attainment.
Sexual satisfaction, whether in women or in men has been highly valued, but hasn’t been intelligibly understood. This is mainly due to the incorrect psychological conviction that sexual experience is an easy process, disregarding the emotional dissatisfaction that it may bring along. I am sure, not many of us would have thought that orgasm can have a multitude of factors associated with it except for it just being ‘climax’ of love making.