Fall of married life: Time To Restart The Romance
You have enjoyed the romantic period of your life, got married, have kids and then life is settled for good. But something has changed; the daily repetition of same duties has made the life dull and boring. If you have noticed the grey shade engulfing your marriage then it’s the fall season for you which need to be reverting back to spring because the coldness in marriage only leads to dissatisfaction and deception. Don’t let the phase come where you need to save your marriage.
Yes, this Lack of Communication barrier can suffocate your marriage and eventually result into a break up. It does not matter that you have arrange marriage or love relationship, if you won’t speak your heart and mind loudly, you can’t expect your partner to understand your every need and problem.
You are not happy with your in laws as they don’t understand you; they don’t help you with kids or share your responsibilities then there must be the lack of coordination between spouses or other family members. If you want to strain your love relationship then please go ahead with your constant nagging and ranting. If you won’t stop burdening your partner then get ready for the frustration, irritation and stress elements.
Don’t give him/her attention to her features, looks, problems, expectations and get ready for sleepless nights of a sexless marriage. There is limit to lack of Concern, it not always about ME, think about WE. Look at your partner needs even if he/she doesn’t ask you. Some people don’t advertise their problems, may be your partner is one of them.
Your partner is very strong, independent and reliable, you are very proud of him/her…THAT’S IT. He/she is a human being and also come across many obstacles. Though he/she is capable of many herculean tasks but still he/she needs your emotional support AT LEAST to overcome the lack of Completeness. Your complete dependency can cause irritation and lower your respect in his/her eyes.
You are caring, loving, romantic, dedicated and successful too but he/she is still not happy. May be your partner has start developing inferiority complex i.e. lack of Confidence/Competition. Induce the sense of healthy competition in him/her by talking and discussing with his/her problems. Selfish, manipulative and dominant behavior will only bring fear, frustration and insecurity in your love relationship.
When you will maintain all these line of controls, the fall of your married life would change into the spring of a romantic journey. It is very easy to pluck a flower from the plant but impossible to put it back but the best part of any love relationship that it still give you a ground to sow new seeds to make a garden of romance and love.
The great thing about marriage is that you don’t remain alone; you have an army behind you in form of in laws, relatives, kids and friends. They can do anything for you, help you in plotting a plan, get involve in your love conspiracies and they put all efforts to save your marriage. All you need is to prevent your marriage from the fall season by taking care of little things