Golden Traps of Love Affair
Signs that it is just a casual love affair
If you are chanting “loves me, loves me not” and you have plucked all the petals of that innocent flower, then you have definitely fallen into the beautiful heart shaped pit of love but wait, look around the pit, is it a beautiful pool of feelings or a trap of illusion and seduction?
Track of love or trap of affair
Unfortunately, nobody has devised a machine yet which can tell you that you have love affair or only a temporary settlement of love relationship. The players or commitment escapists are very expert in concealing their traps of love with their romances, cheesy one liner, fake promises of commitment/marriage, and claims of unconditional love. If you are commitment seeking guy or girl then you have to check out if he or she really loves you. Let’s look out for some traps:
Trap 1: We live only once
If he/she says to do something which is not good for you but you are still going to do that for the sake of his/her philosophy of “we live only once” then please listen to that red danger alarm which is screaming at its high volume in your brain. Living once doesn’t mean experimenting with your life. It is okay that he/she really loves you but if you understand each other very well then there should not be any place of insecurities and fear from commitment. Don’t take any step by becoming blind in love for the sake of “living once” because after becoming a mother of illegitimate child you can’t say that this happened with me because I tried to live once. A love relationship needs commitment just like we need oxygen to breathe.
Trap 2: Show your wild side
Nobody can give you certificate about your sexuality. Calm down his/her eagerness to test your wilder side by jumping on your bones at the initial stages of your relationship. Take your time and do the usual romantic stuff. Physical intimacy is a very big step in a love relationship so you have to be very careful before taking this step.
Trap 3: live-in relationship
So you are living with him from years and you have great understanding, love, compatibility, passion but he is still afraid of commitment/marriage. There are only two reasons for that either your love relationship lacks the amount of trust which can convert your relation into commitment or listen the bitter truth, he is using you. An open relationship can never be a true love relationship.
Trap 4: Sympathy
He/she has been a victim of failed, abusing relationship or sexless marriage. You like him/her but in your sympathy don’t break your precautionary barrier. You could have become a sex escape for him/her, don’t let yourself get used by the tricks.
Open your eyes darling
So think beyond plucking those petals, if the truth is in front of your eyes then don’t make a mockery of yourself by sticking with the fake love relationship. Prevention is better than cure, Right!!!!!!