Tips to Introduce her to Sex Toys
Are you thinking about bringing the sex toys in your relationship?
Incorporating these can be challenging as well as tricky especially when it’s about convincing your lady. Let’s explore the various ways that you can wield so as to persuade her:
- If you have been in the relation for a while and have had sexual sessions together, you have a bonus i.e. communication will not be a task. It is important to have faith in each other since such a subject might make her assume that she is not able to satisfy you in bed.
- Reading about the sex toys is a great way to introduce it to her. Surf for various articles or books which describe all about sex toys. This wouldn’t only help her to learn about its fun part but also give you a peep into her reaction to the topic.
- Assure her that sex toys serve to enhance intimacy and do not act as a substitute to the real thing. The emotional aspect of carnal pleasures between you two cannot be replaced by these. Sex knick knacks are just to add the fun factor to your pleasure moments.
- Before you bounce on her with the subject, make sure of being knowledgeable enough yourself. You would certainly require that to sound convincing rather than insistent. This would also guide you to choose the best sex toy for her.
- Opt for couple specific sex toys. Explore an array of possibilities for both of you so as to perk up your sessions in bed.
- What about gifting her one, instead of talking too much about it? Let her have a solo session to discover and understand the sex toy alone. What’s better than self experimenting without being too conscious!
- Shopping together can be fun! Take her to a sex store or shop online for various types of sex toys. You can discuss about the products without much hesitation.
- Subsuming a sex toy in your relation can take a bad turn if you become too pushy. Give your lady some time to accept or understand the entire thing. If at all the subject seems to be taking onto the wrong direction, avoid and keep it aside for the time being.
- Bring in use the erotic massage oil. The sensations would initiate her interest in giving thumbs up to you for those sex playthings!
- While you give her oral pleasures, try fusing it with a squeel with synthetic tongues/Cunilingus, without her knowledge. The pleasures thus achieved by her would act like things done rather than said by you. Convincing eh!
I hope your girl is successfully assured of the pleasures awaiting her! When beginning to introduce sex toys in your relation, following are the best bet to start with:
- A small external toy for clitoral stimulation is a lighter and smoother choice for unfurling the path to multiple orgasms for her.
- A cock ring with vibrator would promise fun for both of you.
- The tying eye bands or hand cuffs would give a new definition to your intimate sessions with an additional dose of adventure.
- Give a thought to the prostate massager to spice up the foreplay.
Fetish of such sexual trinkets can be very strange. Those who are not used to these can find it weird and unacceptable. The thought of being sexually aroused by an external inert object can sound idiotic to them. Be open with your preference and love for sex toys in front of your partner. It’s time to open up your box of secret fantasies to enjoy with your lady for bed sputtering sessions!